Object Lesson - Cookies

I love cookies! To me there is almost nothing better than a homemade cookie, whether it be the classic chocolate chip or a seasonal gingersnap or a snickerdoodle. I love pulling out my trusty red Kitcheaid mixer, measuring cups and spoons, spatula, and ingredients and whipping up a batch of deliciousness, especially with my kids.

The other day, I read a great devotional from Proverbs 31 about life and how even the hard things are an important part of it. The author used this great analogy, so I cannot take the credit, but it was too good not to share. I am hoping us parents can use it with our kids. I've added more details to make it easier to do.

Pull out your mixer, measuring cups, and spoons, spatula, and ingredients, and grab your kids for this great object lesson.

Using the classic chocolate chip cookie recipe, start with 2 sticks of softened butter. Talk to your kids about how butter is a fat and how sometimes we go through "fat times" which are times of plenty and blessing. You could share some times that you have seen God provide.

Add 3/4 cup of white sugar and 3/4 cup of brown sugar. Talk to your kids about how the sugar is like the "sweet times" which are times of super blessings. You could share some times that you have seen God do some sweet things. Mix that all up.

Then add 2 eggs and 2 tsp vanilla and mix. Talk to your kids about how we don't eat raw eggs and how sometimes we go through some pretty "raw times," that hurt pretty badly. You could talk about times in your life that hurt. You can also talk to them about how the vanilla represents "super sweet times". Share some super sweet times like your kids being born.

Then you add 2 1/4 cup flour, 1 tsp baking soda, 1 tsp baking powder, and 1 tsp salt. Flour, baking soda, and baking powder are not fun to eat plain. They are pretty dry and tasteless, even yucky. They represent the "dry times" or "yucky times". Talk to your kids about those times in life. The salt represents "salty times" Those would be the really hard times. Talk with your kids about those.

Last, but of course not least, add in a bag of semisweet chocolate chips and mix. They represent the everyday sweet things that happen. Hopefully there are lots of "semisweet moments" sprinkled into your days. Making cookies could be one of those "semisweet moments."

Bake at 350 for 8-10 minutes. Enjoy! Remind them that God works all things together for the good (Romans 8:28). He puts all the "ingredients" into our "recipe" and it turns out as a good thing.

A Family Mission Statement

For years I have been hearing about creating a family mission statement. It always intrigued me because I am all about trying to find a focus for what I am doing and keeping my eyes on that. Anyone who knows me knows that I love acronyms. I prayed about this for a long time and decided that I wanted to use our last name, Webber, to create our mission statement using the letters in our name. I sat down and wrote every verb that I could think of that started with those letters that sounded like it would go along with something that could be a core value of our mission.

Wait, Walk
Educate, Encourage, Enjoy, Enter, Examine, Expect, Extend
Behave, Believe, Bless
Radiate, Raise, Rejoice, Remember, Reproduce, Remember, Rest

Then, I narrowed them down to these:
Walk with God
Enjoy and Examine God's Word
Believe that God Can Do the Impossible
Behave Like a Christian
Enter His Gates with Thanksgiving
Reproduce Other Believers in Jesus

After that, I found Bible verses to be the foundational truths of each part of the mission.

I typed it all up, prettied it all up, and printed out our Webber Family Mission Statement.

I am sharing it with you in hopes that it will motivate you to make yours as well. God Bless!

Be Humble

Help/Serve Others
   Mark 9:35 – “If anyone desires to be first, 
                        he shall be last of all and servant of all.” – Jesus
   Mark 10:43-45 – ⁴³ Whoever desires to become great among you 
                                    shall be your servant. 
                               ⁴⁴ And whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all. 
                               ⁴⁵ For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.”

“Me first,” is not just something that little kids say.
It’s a heart attitude that many people struggle with.
Jesus told His disciples if they wanted to be first, they should be last and serve everyone.
How can you turn from “me first” to “me last”? How can you serve others?

Use Your Gifts for Others, Not Yourself
  1^st Peter 4:10 – Each of you should use whatever gift you have received
                            to serve others.
  God has given everyone different gifts, not to use for themselves, but for others.
  What gifts has God given you? How can you use them for others?

Mimic/Model Jesus to Others
   Philippians 2:3-11 – ³ Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit,
                                      but in lowliness of mind
                                      let each esteem others better than himself. 
                                    ⁴ Let each of you look out not only for his own interests,
                                      but also for the interests of others.
                                    ⁵ Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, 
                                    ⁶ who, being in the form of God,
                                       did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, 
                                    ⁷ but made Himself of no reputation,
                                       taking the form of a bondservant, 
                                      and coming in the likeness of men. 
                                    ⁸ And being found in appearance as a man,
                                       He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point
                                       of death, even the death of the cross. 
                                    ⁹ Therefore God also has highly exalted Him
                                      and given Him the name which is above every name, 
                                    ¹⁰ that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
                                       of those in heaven, and of those on earth,
                                       and of those under the earth, 
                                    ¹¹ and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,
                                       to the glory of God the Father.
When we come to Jesus as believers, we are to be like Jesus.
Jesus was a humble servant.
How are you mimicking Jesus to others? How can you model Jesus to others?

Be Honest With Others About Your Mistakes and Sins
  James 5:16 – Confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another,
                        that you may be healed.
We all sin (Romans 3:23).
We don’t have to hide that from others and try to look like we are awesome.
How can you humble yourself and share your mistakes and sins with others?

Listen to Others
  Proverbs 12:15 – The wise listen to advice.
  Humble people listen to others. How can you be a better listener?

Edify/Build Up Others
  Romans 15:2 – Each of us should be concerned for our neighbors’ good,
                           to build them up (edify them).
  Humble people look for ways to build up others. How can you build others up?